Say Thank You So Much!

in Thank You Messages

There are many ways to say thank-you for gifts, favors, condolences, or simply sharing time together. While doing so in person, one-to-one, is best, it is not always feasible. Nonetheless, conveying the message of thank you so much, by any means, must be done in a timely fashion, keeping it appropriately personal. Naturally, saying thank you for a business referral would not be as personal as saying thank you for a wedding gift, and therefore, different methods prevail.

In this age of email, one might easily be tempted to use electronic methods to convey thanks. While it may suffice for business purposes and even be an acceptable practice there, it is not as appropriate for more personal situations. Thus, when receiving gifts for special occasions, from baby showers to weddings, where it is difficult to thank everyone then, a personally written note afterward is preferable. That is also the case for expressions of sympathy or birthday gifts not personally acknowledged at the time.

Using thank you cards or notes is always in style. If there has been a formal affair, such as a wedding, notes embossed or imprinted with the bride and groom’s name are appropriate, a hand-written note inside referring to the gift and how it will be used. Just writing “thank you for the gift” without identifying it is not enough and makes recipients feel as if theirs is just one of a string of same-sounding lines. Saying “thank you so much for the gift of money to be put towards our first home purchase” is a lot better.

Similarly, when writing a note of thanks for other gifts, it is always best to mention them specifically. While penning thank you for the baby gift is showing some appreciation, it does not do so nearly as effectively as naming the gift and how it will be, or is being, used or enjoyed. Once again, it is putting a personal effort forward to enhance being courteous in thanking the giver.

For times when someone has done something really nice or been extremely helpful in going out of their way to do the unexpected, it is also nice to say thanks when circumstances have made it hard to do so adequately. By sending a special treat, a bunch of balloons, or bouquet of flowers, gratitude is shown in deeds rather than words. While not appropriate when there are many to thank, it is an individualized and heartfelt approach not likely to be forgotten.

Thus, saying “thank you so much” may not follow one specific format, but it is an important part of interacting with others and a key to showing gratitude. Fortunately, there are many available tools and means to help make it part of anyone’s life.

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